>but Tokio forces all of your async functions to be multi thread safe
While there are other runtimes that are always single-threaded, you can do it with tokio too. You can use a single threaded tokio runtimes and !Send tasks with LocalSet and spawn_local. There are a few rough edges, and the runtime internally uses atomics where a from-the-ground-up single threaded runtime wouldn't need them, but it works perfectly fine and I use single threaded tokio event loops in my programs because the tokio ecosystem is broader.
While there are other runtimes that are always single-threaded, you can do it with tokio too. You can use a single threaded tokio runtimes and !Send tasks with LocalSet and spawn_local. There are a few rough edges, and the runtime internally uses atomics where a from-the-ground-up single threaded runtime wouldn't need them, but it works perfectly fine and I use single threaded tokio event loops in my programs because the tokio ecosystem is broader.